Learn the gebruik van wederkerige voornaamwoorden zoals 'elkaar' en 'elkaars' voor acties tussen meerdere personen, bijvoorbeeld: 'Ze helpen elkaar' en 'Ze gebruiken elkaars telefoon'.
  1. Use elkaar as the subject when it consists of multiple people.
  2. 'Elkaars' indicates possession and belongs to a noun.
  3. The reciprocal pronoun often follows the verb.
  4. The reciprocal pronoun can be a direct or indirect object and it can come after a preposition. For example: Ze praten met elkaar
 Zelfstandig (Independent)Bijvoeglijk (Adjectival)
Neutraal (Neutral)elkaar (each other)elkaars (each other's)
Informeel (Informal)mekaar (each other)mekaars (each other)
Voorbeelden (Examples)Ze helpen elkaar. (They help each other.)
We hebben mekaar al weken niet gezien. (We haven't seen each other for weeks.)
Ze gebruiken elkaars telefoon. (They use each other's phone.)
Wij dragen mekaars tassen naar school.  (We carry each other's bags to school.)

Exceptions!

  1. In spoken language, mekaar(s) is often used.

Exercise 1: Wederkerig voornaamwoord (elkaar, elkaars)

Instruction: Fill in the correct word.

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elkaars, elkaar

1.
Iedereen respecteert ... plek op de camping.
(Everyone respects each other's place on the campsite.)
2.
We zitten naast ... en kijken naar de sterren.
(We are sitting next to each other and looking at the stars.)
3.
De kinderen tonen ... hun nieuwe tent.
(The children show each other their new tent.)
4.
Ze praten de hele avond met ... over de reis.
(They talk to each other about the trip all evening.)
5.
We gebruiken altijd ... spullen in de caravan.
(We always use each other's things in the caravan.)
6.
Wij helpen ... op de camping met de tent opzetten.
(We help each other at the campsite with putting up the tent.)
7.
Ze gaven ... een kaart van de omgeving.
(They gave each other a map of the area.)

Exercise 2: Multiple Choice

Instruction: Choose the correct sentence with the correct reciprocal pronoun: 'elkaar' or 'elkaars'. Pay close attention to the subject and possession in the sentence.

1.
'Elkaars' is possessive and cannot be used without a noun.
'Mekaars' is informal and incorrect without a noun.
2.
'Elkaar' is incorrect here; possession is expressed with 'elkaars'.
'Mekaar' is informal, but without 's' the possessive form is incorrect with 'kaarten'.
3.
'Elkaars' cannot stand after a preposition without a noun.
'Mekaars' cannot be used without a noun after a preposition.
4.
'Elkaar' is wrong here; possession must be expressed with 'elkaars'.
'Mekaar' without 's' is not the correct possessive form with 'rugzakken'.

Understanding the Reciprocal Pronouns in Dutch: elkaar and elkaars

This lesson helps you learn the use of the reciprocal pronouns elkaar and elkaars in Dutch, which are essential when expressing actions or possessions shared between two or more people.

What Are Reciprocal Pronouns?

Reciprocal pronouns refer to mutual actions or relationships involving multiple persons. In Dutch, the primary forms are:

  • elkaar (neutral form, used as an independent pronoun)
  • elkaars (neutral possessive form, used with a noun)
  • mekaar and mekaars (informal versions commonly used in spoken language)

How to Use elkaar and elkaars

Use elkaar when the subject consists of multiple people doing an action together, for example: Ze helpen elkaar. (They help each other.)

Elkaars is the possessive form and must be followed by a noun that indicates possession, as in: Ze gebruiken elkaars telefoon. (They use each other's phone.)

These pronouns often appear right after the verb or after a preposition, such as in: Ze praten met elkaar. (They talk with each other.)

Neutral and Informal Variants

Independent FormPossessive Form
Neutralelkaarelkaars
Informalmekaarmekaars
ExamplesZe helpen elkaar.
We hebben mekaar al weken niet gezien.
Ze gebruiken elkaars telefoon.
Wij dragen mekaars tassen naar school.

Tips for Usage

  • Subject Agreement: Use elkaar for actions shared by two or more people (plural subjects).
  • Possession: Use elkaars before a noun to indicate mutual possession.
  • Prepositions: Reciprocal pronouns can follow prepositions, e.g., met elkaar.
  • Informal Speech: Mekaar(s) appears in everyday conversation but is considered informal.

Cultural and Language Notes

In comparison to English, Dutch uses specific reciprocal pronouns rather than phrases like "each other" or "one another." For example, "Ze helpen elkaar" translates directly as "They help each other." The possessive form "elkaars" corresponds to the English "each other's." Remember that in Dutch, the use of the reciprocal pronoun depends on the verb and whether possession is involved.

Useful expressions and their English equivalents:

  • Ze helpen elkaar. – They help each other.
  • We gebruiken elkaars spullen. – We use each other's belongings.
  • Ze praten met elkaar. – They talk with each other.

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