Teaching guidelines +/- 15 minutes

This lesson covers the wederkerig voornaamwoord, focusing on 'elkaar' and 'elkaars' and their informal forms 'mekaar' and 'mekaars'. Learn how to use these words to describe mutual actions and possessions, like in 'Ze helpen elkaar' and 'Ze gebruiken elkaars telefoon.'
  1. Use elkaar as the subject when it consists of multiple people.
  2. 'Elkaars' indicates possession and belongs to a noun.
  3. The reciprocal pronoun often follows the verb.
  4. The reciprocal pronoun can be a direct or indirect object and it can come after a preposition. For example: Ze praten met elkaar
 Zelfstandig (Independent)Bijvoeglijk (Adjectival)
Neutraal (Neutral)elkaar (each other)elkaars (each other's)
Informeel (Informal)mekaar (each other)mekaars (each other)
Voorbeelden (Examples)Ze helpen elkaar. (They help each other.)
We hebben mekaar al weken niet gezien. (We haven't seen each other for weeks.)
Ze gebruiken elkaars telefoon. (They use each other's phone.)
Wij dragen mekaars tassen naar school.  (We carry each other's bags to school.)

Exceptions!

  1. In spoken language, mekaar(s) is often used.

Exercise 1: Wederkerig voornaamwoord (elkaar, elkaars)

Instruction: Fill in the correct word.

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elkaars, elkaar

1.
Iedereen respecteert ... plek op de camping.
(Everyone respects each other's place on the campsite.)
2.
We zitten naast ... en kijken naar de sterren.
(We are sitting next to each other and looking at the stars.)
3.
De kinderen tonen ... hun nieuwe tent.
(The children show each other their new tent.)
4.
Ze praten de hele avond met ... over de reis.
(They talk to each other about the trip all evening.)
5.
We gebruiken altijd ... spullen in de caravan.
(We always use each other's things in the caravan.)
6.
Wij helpen ... op de camping met de tent opzetten.
(We help each other at the campsite with putting up the tent.)
7.
Ze gaven ... een kaart van de omgeving.
(They gave each other a map of the area.)

Exercise 2: Multiple Choice

Instruction: Choose the correct sentence with the correct reciprocal pronoun: 'elkaar' or 'elkaars'. Pay close attention to the subject and possession in the sentence.

1.
'Elkaars' is possessive and cannot be used without a noun.
'Mekaars' is informal and incorrect without a noun.
2.
'Elkaar' is incorrect here; possession is expressed with 'elkaars'.
'Mekaar' is informal, but without 's' the possessive form is incorrect with 'kaarten'.
3.
'Elkaars' cannot appear after a preposition without a noun.
'Mekaars' cannot be used after a preposition without a noun.
4.
'Elkaar' is incorrect here; possession must be expressed with 'elkaars'.
'Mekaar' without 's' is not the correct possessive form with 'rugzakken'.

Understanding the Reciprocal Pronouns in Dutch: elkaar and elkaars

This lesson focuses on the reciprocal pronouns used in Dutch to express actions or relationships involving two or more persons. The key pronouns are elkaar and its possessive form elkaars. Sometimes, the informal variants mekaar and mekaars are also used in everyday speech.

What Are Reciprocal Pronouns?

Reciprocal pronouns refer to mutual actions or possession between subjects. In Dutch, elkaar is used when the subject is plural and performing an action together, while elkaars expresses possession related to each other.

Basic Forms

IndependentAdjective
Neutralelkaarelkaars
Informalmekaarmekaars
ExamplesZe helpen elkaar.
We hebben mekaar al weken niet gezien.
Ze gebruiken elkaars telefoon.
Wij dragen mekaars tassen naar school.

How to Use Them

  • elkaar is used as the object when the subject is plural and doing something mutually: Ze helpen elkaar.
  • elkaars indicates possession and always accompanies a noun: Ze gebruiken elkaars telefoon.
  • Reciprocal pronouns usually come after the verb but can also follow a preposition, e.g., Ze praten met elkaar.
  • Informal variants mekaar and mekaars are common in spoken language but should be used carefully in formal writing.

Key Points to Remember

  • Use elkaar when referring to mutual actions involving multiple subjects.
  • Use elkaars to show possession relating to each other.
  • The pronouns can be direct or indirect objects, and also objects of prepositions.

Differences Between English and Dutch

In English, reciprocal actions are often expressed by phrases like "each other" or "one another," but these do not change form according to possession as in Dutch. For example, English uses "each other's" similarly to Dutch elkaars, but English does not have informal variants like mekaar(s).

Some useful Dutch expressions include:

  • Elkaar helpen – to help each other
  • Elkaars telefoon gebruiken – to use each other's phone
  • Met elkaar praten – to talk with each other

Understanding these pronouns enhances your ability to describe mutual relationships and actions clearly in Dutch.

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