Teaching guidelines +/- 15 minutes

Learn how to express wishes and regrets in Dutch using the imperfect past tense. This lesson explains how to form sentences with expressions like 'Had ik maar' and 'Was het al maar' to discuss unreal or hypothetical situations. Understand grammar rules, typical sentence structures, and key vocabulary to communicate wishes and regrets naturally and correctly in Dutch.
  1. Use the onvoltooid verleden tijd to express regret or an unfulfilled wish.
  2. The situation is imaginary or unrealistic at this moment.
  3. It is often accompanied by maar.
Situatie (Situation)Voorbeelden (Examples)
Wens (Wish)Was het al maar zomervakantie. (If only it were already summer holiday.)
Had ik maar meer geld, dan kon ik mijn huur betalen.  (If only I had more money, then I could pay my rent.)
At ik maar wat gezonder, dan was ik slanker. (If only I ate a bit healthier, then I would be slimmer.)
Spijt (Regret)Hadden we maar gewacht. (If only we had waited.)
Had ik maar meer gespaard. (If only I had saved more.)
Had ik maar beter geluisterd. (If only I had listened better.)

Exercise 1: Wensen uitdrukken met de onvoltooid verleden tijd

Instruction: Fill in the correct word.

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Had, moest, kocht, Kon, Wist, ging

1. Kunnen:
... ik maar muntgeld wisselen bij de balie.
(I wish I could change coins at the counter.)
2. Weten:
... ik dat maar eerder!
(If only I had known that earlier!)
3. Kopen:
Was ik maar rijk, dan ... ik een groot huis.
(If only I were rich, I would buy a big house.)
4. Hebben:
... ik maar meer geld om eten te kopen.
(If only I had more money to buy food.)
5. Gaan:
Had ik maar meer gespaard, dan ... ik op wereldreis.
(If only I had saved more, I would go on a world trip.)
6. Moeten:
Had ik maar mijn betaling op tijd gedaan, dan ... ik geen boetes betalen.
(If only I had made my payment on time, then I wouldn't have to pay fines.)

Exercise 2: Multiple Choice

Instruction: Choose the correct sentence in which a wish or regret is expressed using the past tense and 'maar' ('if only').

1.
'But' placement is incorrect; it should come immediately after 'If I had' for a correct wish structure.
Infinitive used instead of past tense after 'maar' ('if only'). The correct form is 'to arrange'.
2.
The verb form 'Were' is incorrectly used here for expressing a wish with past tense in this context.
Incorrect use of present tense 'can' instead of past tense to express a wish.
3.
Incorrect word order; the correct order is 'could pay' and not 'pay could'.
Error: 'can' is present tense, but the wish requires past tense ('could').
4.
Wrong word order; 'earlier' should come before the past participle.
Incorrect infinitive 'check' instead of past participle 'checked' after 'If only we had'.

Expressing Wishes with the Imperfect Past Tense

This lesson teaches how to express wishes and regrets using the imperfect past tense in Dutch. You will learn how to convey thoughts about situations that are unreal or hypothetical, often accompanied by the word maar (but). Common expressions include Had ik maar, Was het al maar, and Wist ik maar. For example, phrases like “Was het al maar zomervakantie” (If only it were already summer vacation) or “Had ik maar meer geld” (If only I had more money) illustrate wishes that contrast with reality.

Wishes and Regrets

The imperfect past tense (onvoltooid verleden tijd) is used to express both wishes and regrets. For example:

  • Had ik maar meer gespaard (I wish I had saved more)
  • Hadden we maar gewacht (If only we had waited)
  • At ik maar wat gezonder, dan was ik slanker (If only I ate healthier, then I would be slimmer)

Usage Notes

These wishes or regrets describe situations that are not true or did not happen. The sentence often includes the word maar right after the auxiliary verb. Examples include:

  • Had ik maar - If only I had
  • Was het al maar - If only it were already
  • Wist ik maar - If only I knew

Important Grammar Points

Use the imperfect past tense form of verbs after these phrases. Pay attention to word order and verb forms. For example, the verb after maar should be in the imperfect past tense, not the infinitive or present tense.

This knowledge helps learners express hypothetical or unreal situations in Dutch clearly and correctly.

Notes on Differences Between English and Dutch

In English, we often use "if only" or "I wish" combined with past forms to express unreal desires or regrets, similar to Dutch with Had ik maar or Was het al maar. However, Dutch typically places maar immediately after the auxiliary verb to emphasize the wish or regret, which has no direct equivalent placement in English.

Useful phrases to remember include:

  • Had ik maar... — If only I had...
  • Was het al maar... — If only it were already...
  • Wist ik maar... — If only I knew...

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