A2.32: Family plans

Piani familiari

This lesson focuses on using the gerundio and present tense to discuss family plans, introducing key verbs like "stare vivendo" (to be living), "stare pensando" (to be thinking), and "stare creando" (to be creating). You'll practice expressing ongoing actions and intentions about marriage, children, and future ambitions.

Vocabulary (13)

 L'adolescente: the teenager (Italian)

L'adolescente

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The teenager Show

 I gemelli: the twins (Italian)

I gemelli

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The twins Show

 L'adulto: The adult (Italian)

L'adulto

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The adult Show

 Il matrimonio: The wedding (Italian)

Il matrimonio

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The wedding Show

 L'ex compagno: the ex partner (Italian)

L'ex compagno

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The ex partner Show

 L'animale domestico: The pet (Italian)

L'animale domestico

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The pet Show

 Il figlio unico: the only child (Italian)

Il figlio unico

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The only child Show

 Fare una famiglia: To start a family (Italian)

Fare una famiglia

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To start a family Show

 Essere divorziato: to be divorced (Italian)

Essere divorziato

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To be divorced Show

 Avere un bambino: To have a child (Italian)

Avere un bambino

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To have a child Show

 Sposarsi (to marry) - Verb conjugation and exercises

Sposarsi

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To marry Show

 Morire (to die) - Verb conjugation and exercises

Morire

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To die Show

 Creare (to create) - Verb conjugation and exercises

Creare

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To create Show

Exercises

These exercises can be done together during conversation lessons or as homework.

Exercise 1: Translate and use in a sentence

Instruction: Pick a word, translated and use the word in a sentence or dialogue.

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I gemelli


The twins

2

Avere un bambino


To have a child

3

L'ex compagno


The ex partner

4

Sposarsi


To marry

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L'adulto


The adult

Esercizio 2: Conversation exercise

Istruzione:

  1. What is the next big step (your partner and) you want to take? (What is the next big step (your partner and) you want to take?)
  2. Would you like to start a family? (Would you like to start a family?)
  3. Would you like to have pets? Why or why not? (Would you like to have pets? Why or why not?)

Teaching guidelines +/- 10 minutes

Example phrases:

Io e il mio partner ci sposiamo a giugno.

My partner and I are getting married in June.

Non ho un partner, ma la mia migliore amica e io ci siamo appena trasferiti insieme.

I don't have a partner but my best friend and I just moved in together.

Vorrei iniziare una famiglia presto. Mi piacerebbe avere 3 bambini.

I would like to start a family soon. I would love to have 3 children.

Non voglio avere figli in futuro. Il mio partner ed io siamo molto felici senza di loro.

I don't want to have children in the future. My partner and I are very happy without them.

Vorrei avere un cane e due gatti in futuro. Sono cresciuto con animali domestici e desidero lo stesso per i miei figli.

I would like to have a dog and two cats later. I grew up with pets and I would like the same for my children.

Un animale domestico comporta molte responsabilità e con il nostro lavoro e due bambini non abbiamo abbastanza tempo per prenderci cura di un animale.

A pet is a lot of responsibility and with our work and two children we do not have enough time to care for a pet.

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Exercise 3: Dialogue Cards

Instruction: Select a situation and practice the conversation with your teacher or fellow students.

Exercise 4: Multiple Choice

Instruction: Choose the correct solution

1. Se avessimo una casa più grande, potremmo ____ una famiglia felice.

(If we had a bigger house, we could ____ a happy family.)

2. Noi ____ un momento importante della nostra relazione.

(We ____ an important moment of our relationship.)

3. Tu ____ con il tuo ex compagno prima di prendere una decisione.

(You ____ to your ex-partner before making a decision.)

4. Se fossimo sposati, ____ più stabilità economica.

(If we were married, ____ more financial stability.)

Exercise 5: Family Plans

Instruction:

Luca e Maria (Vivere - Presente progressivo) insieme da un anno e (Pensare - Presente progressivo) di formare una famiglia. Ogni giorno, mentre (Parlare - Presente) con Maria, sogniamo a come sarà la nostra vita con un bambino. Questo fine settimana, loro (Creare - Presente progressivo) una lista di cose da comprare per la casa. Io, invece, (Fare - Presente progressivo) un piano per organizzare il lavoro e trovare più tempo libero da dedicare a loro. Tutti (Sperare - Presente progressivo) che questa nuova avventura arrivi presto.


Luca and Maria have been living together for a year and are thinking about starting a family. Every day, while I talk with Maria, we dream about what our life with a child will be like. This weekend, they are making a shopping list for the house. I, instead, am making a plan to organize work and find more free time to dedicate to them. Everyone is hoping that this new adventure will arrive soon.

Verb Tables

Vivere - Live

Presente progressivo

  • io sto vivendo
  • tu stai vivendo
  • lui/lei sta vivendo
  • noi stiamo vivendo
  • voi state vivendo
  • loro stanno vivendo

Pensare - Think

Presente progressivo

  • io sto pensando
  • tu stai pensando
  • lui/lei sta pensando
  • noi stiamo pensando
  • voi state pensando
  • loro stanno pensando

Parlare - Talk

Presente

  • io parlo
  • tu parli
  • lui/lei parla
  • noi parliamo
  • voi parlate
  • loro parlano

Creare - Make

Presente progressivo

  • io sto creando
  • tu stai creando
  • lui/lei sta creando
  • noi stiamo creando
  • voi state creando
  • loro stanno creando

Fare - Make

Presente progressivo

  • io sto facendo
  • tu stai facendo
  • lui/lei sta facendo
  • noi stiamo facendo
  • voi state facendo
  • loro stanno facendo

Sperare - Hope

Presente progressivo

  • io sto sperando
  • tu stai sperando
  • lui/lei sta sperando
  • noi stiamo sperando
  • voi state sperando
  • loro stanno sperando

Exercise 6: Il gerundio, le tre coniugazioni

Instruction: Fill in the correct word.

Grammar: The gerund, the three conjugations

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parlando, scrivendo, vivendo, facendo, sposando, morendo, creando, giocando

1. Parlare:
Lui sta ... con la sua ex compagna.
(He is talking to his ex-partner.)
2. Giocare:
I gemelli stanno ... con il cane.
(The twins are playing with the dog.)
3. Morire:
L'animale sta ... per una lunga malattia.
(The animal is dying from a long illness.)
4. Sposarsi:
Si stanno ... questo fine settimana.
(They are getting married this weekend.)
5. Scrivere:
Sto ... una lettera a mio padre.
(I am writing a letter to my father.)
6. Vivere:
Stiamo ... insieme da sei mesi.
(We have been living together for six months.)
7. Fare:
Sto ... questo lavoro prima del matrimonio.
(I am doing this work before the wedding.)
8. Creare:
Stanno ... una nuova famiglia insieme.
(They are creating a new family together.)

Grammar

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A2.32.1 Grammatica

Il gerundio, le tre coniugazioni

The gerund, the three conjugations


Verb conjugation tables for this lesson

Creare to create

Imperfetto

Italian English
(io) creavo I was creating
(tu) creavi you were creating
(lui/lei) creava he/she was creating
(noi) creavamo we were creating
(voi) creavate you created
(loro) creavano they were creating

Exercises and examples phrases

Morire to die

Futuro semplice

Italian English
(io) morirò I will die
(tu) morirai You will die
(lui/lei) morirà he/she will die
(noi) moriremo We will die
(voi) morirete You will die
(loro) moriranno they will die

Exercises and examples phrases

Sposarsi to marry

Presente

Italian English
(io) mi sposo I marry
(tu) ti sposi You marry
(lui/lei) si sposa he/she marries
(noi) ci sposiamo we marry
(voi) vi sposate You marry
(loro) si sposano They marry

Exercises and examples phrases

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Family Plans: Understanding the Gerund and Verb Conjugations

This lesson focuses on how to discuss family plans in Italian by using the gerund (il gerundio) and the three main conjugations of verbs. It is designed at an A2 level, helping learners build conversational skills around everyday topics such as talking about children, marriage, and personal ambitions.

Key Grammar Topic: The Gerund

The gerund in Italian is used to express actions that are ongoing, equivalent to the English '-ing' form. It combines with the appropriate form of "stare" to form the present progressive tense, which indicates actions happening at the moment.

  • Example: "Sto vivendo" (I am living), "stiamo facendo" (we are doing).
  • Common verbs in the gerund form from this lesson include: vivere, pensare, parlare, creare, fare, sperare.

The Three Verb Conjugations Covered

The lesson includes verbs from the three conjugation groups (-are, -ere, -ire). Understanding their present progressive forms is essential for expressing current actions.

  • Parlare (to speak) – io sto parlando is usually simplified to "io parlo" in conversations but is important for drills.
  • Vivere (to live) – io sto vivendo
  • Creare (to create), fare (to do/make), and others are also practiced in this tense.

Practical Language: Talking about Family Plans

Using dialogs set in natural social contexts such as at the park, at the bar, and at dinner, the lesson teaches phrases and vocabulary for discussing future plans, marriage, children, and shared ambitions.

  • Examples include: "Stiamo pensando di avere un bambino l’anno prossimo." (We are thinking of having a child next year.)
  • "Sto lavorando molto per avere una carriera stabile." (I am working a lot to have a stable career.)
  • "Stiamo facendo molti preparativi." (We are making many preparations.)

Useful Vocabulary and Phrases

  • Family-related phrases: avere un bambino, mettere su famiglia, preparativi, matrimonio
  • Expressions with gerund: stare pensando, stare facendo, sto cercando

Differences and Similarities Between English and Italian

Unlike English, Italian forms the present progressive with the verb stare plus the gerund, e.g., sto vivendo (I am living). English uses "to be" + verb + -ing, which is similar but structurally different. Additionally, Italian gerunds are regular but have distinct endings according to the verb conjugation group.

Some useful Italian expressions and their English equivalents from the lesson:

  • Stiamo preparando la casa – We are preparing the house
  • Sto pensando di chiedere – I am thinking of asking
  • Stiamo vivendo questo periodo – We are living this period

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