A2.32: Family plans

Piani familiari

This lesson focuses on using the gerundio and present tense to discuss family plans, introducing key verbs like "stare vivendo" (to be living), "stare pensando" (to be thinking), and "stare creando" (to be creating). You'll practice expressing ongoing actions and intentions about marriage, children, and future ambitions.

Listening and reading

Start this class by listening to the audio and completing the corresponding exercises.

Vocabulary (13)

 L'adolescente: the teenager (Italian)

L'adolescente

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The teenager Show

 I gemelli: the twins (Italian)

I gemelli

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The twins Show

 L'adulto: The adult (Italian)

L'adulto

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The adult Show

 Il matrimonio: The wedding (Italian)

Il matrimonio

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The wedding Show

 L'ex compagno: the ex partner (Italian)

L'ex compagno

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The ex partner Show

 L'animale domestico: The pet (Italian)

L'animale domestico

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The pet Show

 Il figlio unico: the only child (Italian)

Il figlio unico

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The only child Show

 Fare una famiglia: To start a family (Italian)

Fare una famiglia

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To start a family Show

 Essere divorziato: to be divorced (Italian)

Essere divorziato

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To be divorced Show

 Avere un bambino: To have a child (Italian)

Avere un bambino

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To have a child Show

 Sposarsi (to marry) - Verb conjugation and exercises

Sposarsi

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To marry Show

 Morire (to die) - Verb conjugation and exercises

Morire

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To die Show

 Creare (to create) - Verb conjugation and exercises

Creare

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To create Show

Exercises

These exercises can be done together during conversation lessons or as homework.

Exercise 1: Translate and use in a sentence

Instruction: Pick a word, translated and use the word in a sentence or dialogue.

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I gemelli


The twins

2

Avere un bambino


To have a child

3

L'ex compagno


The ex partner

4

Sposarsi


To marry

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L'adulto


The adult

Esercizio 2: Conversation exercise

Istruzione:

  1. Qual è il prossimo grande passo che vuoi fare (tu e il tuo partner)? (What is the next big step (your partner and) you want to take?)
  2. Vorresti mettere su famiglia? (Would you like to start a family?)
  3. Ti piacerebbe avere animali domestici? Perché sì o perché no? (Would you like to have pets? Why or why not?)

Teaching guidelines +/- 10 minutes

Example phrases:

Io e il mio partner ci sposiamo a giugno.

My partner and I are getting married in June.

Non ho un partner, ma la mia migliore amica e io ci siamo appena trasferiti insieme.

I don't have a partner but my best friend and I just moved in together.

Vorrei iniziare una famiglia presto. Mi piacerebbe avere 3 bambini.

I would like to start a family soon. I would love to have 3 children.

Non voglio avere figli in futuro. Il mio partner ed io siamo molto felici senza di loro.

I don't want to have children in the future. My partner and I are very happy without them.

Vorrei avere un cane e due gatti in futuro. Sono cresciuto con animali domestici e desidero lo stesso per i miei figli.

I would like to have a dog and two cats later. I grew up with pets and I would like the same for my children.

Un animale domestico comporta molte responsabilità e con il nostro lavoro e due bambini non abbiamo abbastanza tempo per prenderci cura di un animale.

A pet is a lot of responsibility and with our work and two children we do not have enough time to care for a pet.

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Exercise 3: Dialogue Cards

Instruction: Select a situation and practice the conversation with your teacher or fellow students.

Exercise 4: Multiple Choice

Instruction: Choose the correct solution

1. Se avessimo più spazio, __________ un giardino per i bambini.

(If we had more space, __________ a garden for the children.)

2. Mia sorella __________ l'anno prossimo se trovasse la persona giusta.

(My sister __________ next year if she found the right person.)

3. Se tuo figlio impara l’italiano, potrebbe __________ meglio qui.

(If your son learns Italian, he could __________ better here.)

4. Stai __________ un progetto interessante per la tua famiglia, vero?

(You are __________ an interesting project for your family, right?)

Exercise 5: Family Plans

Instruction:

Da giovane, io (Creare - Imperfetto) molti progetti per il mio futuro. Ora, con mia moglie, noi (Sposarsi - Presente) e spesso (Parlare - Presente) dei nostri piani per avere dei bambini. Se tutto va bene, mio padre (Morire - Futuro semplice) serenamente entro qualche anno, e questo ci fa riflettere sull'importanza della famiglia. Noi due (Creare - Presente) una casa accogliente e un ambiente pieno d'amore per crescere il nostro figlio unico.


When I was young, I created (Creare - Imperfetto) many plans for my future. Now, with my wife, we are getting married (Sposarsi - Presente) and often talk (Parlare - Presente) about our plans to have children. If all goes well, my father will die (Morire - Futuro semplice) peacefully within a few years, and this makes us reflect on the importance of family. The two of us create (Creare - Presente) a welcoming home and a loving environment to raise our only child.

Verb Tables

Creare - Creare

Imperfetto

  • io creavo
  • tu creavi
  • lui/lei creava
  • noi creavamo
  • voi creavate
  • loro creavano

Morire - Morire

Futuro semplice

  • io morirò
  • tu morirai
  • lui/lei morirà
  • noi moriremo
  • voi morirete
  • loro moriranno

Sposarsi - Sposarsi

Presente

  • io mi sposo
  • tu ti sposi
  • lui/lei si sposa
  • noi ci sposiamo
  • voi vi sposate
  • loro si sposano

Parlare - Parlare

Presente

  • io parlo
  • tu parli
  • lui/lei parla
  • noi parliamo
  • voi parlate
  • loro parlano

Creare - Creare

Presente

  • io creo
  • tu crei
  • lui/lei crea
  • noi creiamo
  • voi create
  • loro creano

Exercise 6: Il gerundio, le tre coniugazioni

Instruction: Fill in the correct word.

Grammar: The gerund, the three conjugations

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parlando, scrivendo, vivendo, facendo, sposando, morendo, creando, giocando

1. Parlare:
Lui sta ... con la sua ex compagna.
(He is talking to his ex-partner.)
2. Giocare:
I gemelli stanno ... con il cane.
(The twins are playing with the dog.)
3. Morire:
L'animale sta ... per una lunga malattia.
(The animal is dying from a long illness.)
4. Sposarsi:
Si stanno ... questo fine settimana.
(They are getting married this weekend.)
5. Scrivere:
Sto ... una lettera a mio padre.
(I am writing a letter to my father.)
6. Vivere:
Stiamo ... insieme da sei mesi.
(We have been living together for six months.)
7. Fare:
Sto ... questo lavoro prima del matrimonio.
(I am doing this work before the wedding.)
8. Creare:
Stanno ... una nuova famiglia insieme.
(They are creating a new family together.)

Grammar

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A2.32.2 Grammatica

Il gerundio, le tre coniugazioni

The gerund, the three conjugations


Verb conjugation tables for this lesson

Creare to create

Imperfetto

Italian English
(io) creavo I was creating
(tu) creavi you were creating
(lui/lei) creava he/she was creating
(noi) creavamo we were creating
(voi) creavate you created
(loro) creavano they were creating

Exercises and examples phrases

Morire to die

Futuro semplice

Italian English
(io) morirò I will die
(tu) morirai You will die
(lui/lei) morirà he/she will die
(noi) moriremo We will die
(voi) morirete You will die
(loro) moriranno they will die

Exercises and examples phrases

Sposarsi to marry

Presente

Italian English
(io) mi sposo I marry
(tu) ti sposi You marry
(lui/lei) si sposa he/she marries
(noi) ci sposiamo we marry
(voi) vi sposate You marry
(loro) si sposano They marry

Exercises and examples phrases

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Family Plans: Understanding the Gerund and Verb Conjugations

This lesson focuses on how to discuss family plans in Italian by using the gerund (il gerundio) and the three main conjugations of verbs. It is designed at an A2 level, helping learners build conversational skills around everyday topics such as talking about children, marriage, and personal ambitions.

Key Grammar Topic: The Gerund

The gerund in Italian is used to express actions that are ongoing, equivalent to the English '-ing' form. It combines with the appropriate form of "stare" to form the present progressive tense, which indicates actions happening at the moment.

  • Example: "Sto vivendo" (I am living), "stiamo facendo" (we are doing).
  • Common verbs in the gerund form from this lesson include: vivere, pensare, parlare, creare, fare, sperare.

The Three Verb Conjugations Covered

The lesson includes verbs from the three conjugation groups (-are, -ere, -ire). Understanding their present progressive forms is essential for expressing current actions.

  • Parlare (to speak) – io sto parlando is usually simplified to "io parlo" in conversations but is important for drills.
  • Vivere (to live) – io sto vivendo
  • Creare (to create), fare (to do/make), and others are also practiced in this tense.

Practical Language: Talking about Family Plans

Using dialogs set in natural social contexts such as at the park, at the bar, and at dinner, the lesson teaches phrases and vocabulary for discussing future plans, marriage, children, and shared ambitions.

  • Examples include: "Stiamo pensando di avere un bambino l’anno prossimo." (We are thinking of having a child next year.)
  • "Sto lavorando molto per avere una carriera stabile." (I am working a lot to have a stable career.)
  • "Stiamo facendo molti preparativi." (We are making many preparations.)

Useful Vocabulary and Phrases

  • Family-related phrases: avere un bambino, mettere su famiglia, preparativi, matrimonio
  • Expressions with gerund: stare pensando, stare facendo, sto cercando

Differences and Similarities Between English and Italian

Unlike English, Italian forms the present progressive with the verb stare plus the gerund, e.g., sto vivendo (I am living). English uses "to be" + verb + -ing, which is similar but structurally different. Additionally, Italian gerunds are regular but have distinct endings according to the verb conjugation group.

Some useful Italian expressions and their English equivalents from the lesson:

  • Stiamo preparando la casa – We are preparing the house
  • Sto pensando di chiedere – I am thinking of asking
  • Stiamo vivendo questo periodo – We are living this period

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